It used to be that the only sex toys available for men were “pocket pussies” and sex dolls. Women usually have a few sex toys in the nightstand drawer, but, men usually lack the essential toys to further enhance their personal sex lives. The following toys are those that the 21st century male can’t and shouldn’t do without.
- Fleshlight- The number one men’s sex toy in the world, and therefore number one on the list. This male masturbation toy comes in over 160 varieties. The original Fleshlight Lady has evolved into various models that include vaginal, oral and anal inserts. Each model has a varying degree of tightness and texture to simulate different orifices. There is a line of toys called Fleshlight Girls, which are designed to look and feel like porn stars, such as Jenna Haze, Misty Stone, Jesse Jane, Teagen Presley, Tera Patrick and Stoya. One of the latest models is the Fleshlight Alien, the design taken from the film ‘Avatar’. All Fleshlights clean easy with simple soap and warm water.
- Tenga Eggs – This Japanese import comes discreetly packaged in a small plastic egg. Tenga makes a variety of textures, all of which are out of this world. Originally designed for Japanese men, they have been adapted to meet the size of American males. Tenga eggs come in a variety of textures: Twister – vertical ones ripples, Wavy – horizontal ripples, Silky – a thread-spun surface, Spider – lined with a web pattern, Clicker – protruding spheres, Stepper – notched out semi-circles.
- Prostate Massagers – Women have the g-spot, men have the p-spot. One of the most popular prostate massagers is the Talon. A prostate orgasm is absolutely mind-blowing and should be experienced by every man.
- Cock rings – These toys come in both vibrating and non-vibrating varieties. The rings not only enhance pleasure, they also can prolong orgasms.
- Pjur Man lubricants - There are lubes and there are lubes. This silicone-based lubricant is geared toward men and whether playing alone or with a partner, will significantly enhance and heighten pleasure. It will be the best fuck you’ve had in a while.
- Tenga Flip Hole – From the maker of the Tenga Egg comes another male masturbation toy. This one is made with elastomer, a silicone material, which gives it the its ultra-soft touch and feel. The texture feels like nothing you’ve felt before.
- Sex dolls – Once reserved for old school bachelor parties, today’s love doll is nothing like those of the past. Dolls originally manufactured were nothing more than a plastic blow-up doll made of the same material as a dollar store pool float. These dolls are made to look and feel just like a real person, both inside and out. HBO’s ‘Real Sex’ did a story on sex dolls where men AND couples described in depth what they enjoyed about their dolls why some men preferred them over the real thing.
- Oral simulators – If you are looking for some oral satisfaction and can’t find a willing partner (or you want it NOW and don’t want to wait for an able mouth) then this toy will fulfill your urges. It’s basically the blow-job that swallows and doesn’t talk back.
- Vibrating masturbators – These little gems, originally called ”pocket pussies”, are designed to be discreet or overt as you choose. Usually battery powered, these toys simulate the vagina and come in multi-speed models. Similar to the Fleshlight, there are many different models with varying degrees of tightness and texture. Also, you can find these vibrating masturbators fashioned after the pussies’ of porn stars. There is also a host of ‘pocket asses’ too!
- Liberator sex furniture - one item that won’t fit in the drawer is piece of ‘furniture’ from Liberator. Liberator makes high quality pieces for the bedroom (or the living room) that lets couples (and friends) explore new positions and situations in love-making. The Liberator furniture line comes in various colors and shapes, including wedges, chairs, ramps and blankets.
Men should no longer worry about missing out on the fun and satisfaction of sex toys made for them. Get sucked or fuck yourself til your heart’s content. And ladies, if your man doesn’t have a toy of his own, give him the gift of that keeps on giving. For a full selection of men’s sex toys, condoms and erotic games, check out Swingtastic Toys.